The Things I have learned about Kindergarten

I am amazed how much Kindergarten has changed since I was in school.There is such a big difference in what is taught now days and what is expected of our kiddos.Then there is the stuff that has not changed for the parent and child but you just don't expect or know until it's your little one starting school. Here is what I have found out in the last 2  1/2 months.

1. You will cry on their 1st day no matter how hard you try not to.
2. Your child may not react the way you have thought they would.Mine didn't even want a hug before I left.Almost acted as if he did not know me.A real heart breaker!
3. By the end of the 1st week most teachers really don't want you walking your child to class.WHAT!? Are they crazy? Just drop him off at the door of the school and let him find his own way? Which leads me to # 4
4. They really are capable of finding their way to class and other places in the school right by themselves.This horrified me, thinking about him wandering the halls of the school alone.Really took some getting used to for me.
5. What we learned in Kindergarten is what they are expected to know when they arrive the 1st day.
6. They do not take a nap.This is a good thing for us.I am quite positive his teacher would not want to see how much more energy he has after getting rested up.
7. They actually start some algebra now.This really blew my mind and also frightened me.When told this,I thought I may need to go back to school myself so I will be able to help with homework.
8. They will have homework everyday.I don't remember doing much at all.
9. Homework is not hard but boy the directions can really be confusing.Once you spend an hour calling all your friends with kids in kindergarten and figure it out it only takes about 10 minutes to do.
10. Your kid will probably know how to read 3-4 letter words by the 2nd month of school.Now they can read you some of the book.This part of school really excites me.Listening to my little man read is the coolest thing!
11. You really begin to realize just how much more your child is capable of.Don't let them fool you! They can do far more than they let on.If you knew they were smart before school, you might feel like they are near geniuses after you see what they learn in such a short amount of time.They really just make us feel like we have to do everything for them.Its not a fact of life.They are so much smarter theses days!
12. When they get home, it is possible they will try to eat everything in the frig and cupboard.Even though my son eats breakfast at home and school,then lunch,he walks through the door as if he has not ate all day.
13. Last but not least,no matter how grown and independent they now seem, they need you.They need to know you are interested in their day and are proud of all of their achievements.We always talk about what Joseph does at school.I ask a lot of detailed questions, like what did you eat for lunch?Who did you play with on the playground and what did you play? He kind of acted like this irritated him after a while so one day I only asked one question. Did you have a good day? He said,yes.When I did the same the next day he said,"Mama,you don't want to know what I did at school anymore?"He really sounded disappointed.I said of course I do.Then I realized he really did appreciate my interest in his day and I guess it took a day or two without it for him to realize that himself.

Very excited about his 1st day

Getting a bit nervous once at school

 These are just the things I have learned in 2 months.No telling whats in the future for the rest of the year!

Getting to work and totally ignoring my existence!

Saving Money and Having Fun

Living on a tight budget can be stressful but you don't have to totally deprive yourself of a fun shopping trip to do it.What woman does not like to go shopping once in a while? It can be done even if you don't have $100.00.I am a thrift store lover and it saves me money and my sanity.I know some people that would not be caught dead in one.Everything has to be brand new and name brand.Well, I like new and name brand myself  but I choose not to pay the new and name brand prices for it.I would rather pay $2.00 for a Vera Bradley pocket book than 50.00 or more any day.I did just that, not long ago too.Don't get me wrong, you can over spend in thrift stores if you walk in with the wrong mind set.I know a lady who goes from store to store buying up things she is never going to wear or use just because its cheap,but this is not a way of saving if you don't need it! When I walk in I have things in mind I'm looking for that we need or maybe a special toy my children would like.I only buy the things I know I can use.I have been needing to get Joseph some new dress shoes for church,and he needed a belt.At a normal store I knew this was going to cost me at least thirty to forty dollars, if I found a sale, so I have been keeping my eyes open in the thrift stores.Today I found what I needed and more.
   Here's what I got for $12.00!

There is the belt and shoes I needed.The shoes were $2.00 and were brand new and the belt was $3.00 and I have never seen one a Walmart for less than $7.00.Joseph had a good report card and my husband and I were talking about getting him some of those tiny Lego's he loves.A small box of 60 pieces is $5.00 and today I got a lg. box of 600 for $4.00! That was the most expensive in the picture above.A lot of times I make out better than this but I felt pretty satisfied anyway, and had a lot of fun too.

How to Brine a Turkey

With Thanksgiving coming up, I thought I would share how I made the best turkey in the world one year.It was extremely moist and yummy.My family still talks about that turkey!

what you will need

• two cups of kosher salt
• two gallons of water.
• include sweeteners

1. Dissolve salt (and sugar, if using) in two cups of hot water. Stir in remaining gallon plus 3 ½ quarts of cold water.               
2. Remove giblets and neck from turkey. Immerse turkey in brine and refrigerate for at least eight hours but no longer than 24 hours.               

 Cooking the Turkey

 When you're ready to roast, pour off the brine. Rinse the turkey well with cool tap water, and pat dry with paper towels. Tuck the wing tips behind the back and place the bird, breast-side up, on a roasting rack. Proceed with your preferred recipe, but remember that the turkey has already absorbed a significant amount of salt--any drippings that you use for gravy will already be salty, and no salt should be added to compound butters or spice rubs.

Wednesday Wisdom

Proverbs 27:1
Boast not thyself of tomorrow;for thou knowest not what a day may bring forth.

Make the best of today! Do all the can,love all you can and enjoy all you can because none of us are promised tomorrow..I sure don't want to waste today thinking on my troubles and hardships but rather think on all the Lord has blessed me with.Enjoy all the precious moments my children bring to my life.The laughter,the hugs and I love you mama moments.Feels much better to smile than frown. Sometimes we will let one little problem rob us of so much joy, when all the while there are so many great things happening all around.We can not see the good because we have magnified the problem until it has blocked our view of the things that really matter.Right now is all I am promised and I refuse to let anything steal that from me.

                    Too Blessed To Be Stressed

Terrific Tuseday,30 Second Breakfast

I posted last night about making sausage and cheese crescent rolls for breakfast to reheat this morning.I had tried one after they were done and I thought they were good but the real test would be this morning after they had been reheated.Then to see if my picky eater would like them.Well he gobbled it up, no problem.They reheated in the microwave just fine.Took about 30 seconds to fix breakfast this morning! I feel almost victorious!

Quick and Easy Breakfast Idea

                   

I am always trying to find ways to simplify my life so that I have more time to do the things that are most important to me.Cooking and cleaning is very important but I would rather spend that time with my children.My son especially always has something on his mind and sometimes it gets frustrating trying to keep up with a hundred questions and all of his great ideas while trying to get meals ready and such.Then there is my little Gabriella crawling around my feet,hanging on my skirt tail begging to be held.With all this going on at the same time I can get a bit overwhelmed because I have this over here pressing me to get it done and all the while I really want to be giving my babies that undivided attention the are begging for.I have only just recently started freezing home cooked meals for dinner which has been an awesome help.So today while trying to get everything caught up from the weekend, I was wondering how I could do breakfast ahead of time.I do not like the easy idea of always throwing a bowl of cereal in front of my son before school.We do it once or twice a week but the rest of the week he has a hot breakfast of some kind.So,I came up with the idea of sausage and cheese crescent rolls that I have prepared to- night and can be warmed in the morning.I tried one after they were done and I believe they will be a hit with my semi-picky eater in the morning.They are not all that pretty but was very easy.I will probably try with bacon later.

Sausage & cheese crescent rolls

• 1 can of refrigerated crescent rolls (makes 8)
•  2 slices of cheese cut into 4 squares (can add more if you like)
•  8 precooked breakfast link sausages

1. lay crescent dough out on cookie sheet
2. put 1 square of cheese on each crescent roll
3. lay sausage on top and fold dough around cheese and sausage
4. bake according to direction on can.I did mine at 375 degrees til golden brown.

Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

  We really don't seem to appreciate things as we should until they become limited or not there at all.A sad fact but so true in most cases.Since my husband has become a truck driver and is gone all but 1-2 days a week it has made me realize just how much we are blinded to this fact too many times.There were so many times we probably could have spent quality time together and did not just because we were wrapped up in other things when we were not working or doing other things that had to be done.Maybe not doing things that required money but we could have shared more moments together just the two of us.Even if it wasn't anything more than going for a walk hand in hand and enjoying quiet moments listening to the sound of the birds chirping.Things like that now seem like such a luxury now that we have so little time together.People really do waste so much time just doing things that are really of no importance to this life or the life to come.Though I'm speaking of this in a way that sounds negative there is also a positive note in my thoughts about this because it is a valuable life lesson for me.Yes his job is a necessary one, and it does take away from our time and time with the children.On the bright side it has forced us to see to the fullest extent how precious our time together is and we make the most of what we get.Which in the long run we are spending more quality time together than ever even though we are together less.We no longer just see being in the same room as spending time together but we talk,listen,laugh,cuddle or something that actually makes a lasting memory.Instead of just being in the presence of one another thinking that's all there is to do.Now we are doing things that actually strengthens our family.It has taught us to cherish every moment and therefore our relationship has grown instead of just existing.
  I believe this is a lesson we can learn with every relationship in our lives.Not only our marriage but our children,friendships and our relationship with God.We should live our lives as though there is no tomorrow or as if those special to us may not be here tomorrow.It may not be an occupation to just limit us as in my situation, but it could be death that takes away all opportunities for those truly meaningful moments permanently.I want to ask myself now and in the future is what I am doing really mean anything or will it just become a forgotten nothing in a few days.I want my actions to have an impression that last not just go through life doing mindless things that have no lasting effect on me or anyone else.